His Secret Obsession Review

his secret obsession Review​

Review of: His Secret Obsession

Use: Get a man to commit to a relationship



The program leverages on a psychological concept called the hero’s instinct



The program with the workbook and other bonus materials cost $47



There’s a 60 days money back guarantee in case you change your mind

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Summary: Specifically designed to help women get the desired attention, affection, devotion, love and total commitment from men who have pulled away or ghosted them or reluctant to commit to a long term relationship.

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Imagine this for a moment: Joyce met this guy (Richard) about 5 months ago with whom she thought she had a great connection.

She was excessively attracted to him and head over heels in love and immediately hit it off.

Richard did everything right from the get-go. 

I mean, he called her every night before hitting his bed. 

He surprised her with luncheon at the office. And he planned out romantic and fun dates and dinners.

Joyce was so excited and felt she had found “the one…” the love and man she had desired for so long. 

This feeling of excitement continued…

However, three months later, something happened that left Joyce sad and confused…

She first noticed the signs in his attitude and voice. 

Unlike before, Richard suddenly became so emotionally cold and distant…and seemed to lose interest. 

Joyce couldn’t tell what she had done wrong or why the sudden behavior change.

Before this time, you could literally feel how passionate and excited they were to see each other. 

But now, the late-night calls ended. No more surprise “drop-ins,” and he disappeared altogether.

Joyce thought his new behavior was a result of what she had done or said. 

Although, she wanted to play it cool. 

After one week of silence, she had reached her boiling point. 

She would lie in her bed and cry most nights. 

She texted and called Richard countless times, 

But he never replied or responded to any.

Joyce didn’t understand how something beautiful and so perfect could shatter so quickly.

 And it was so bad that she felt too embarrassed to reach her friends for support.

Perhaps, you’re in a similar situation right now

I want to introduce you to “His Secret Obsession: How to awaken a man’s most powerful and secret desire to earn your love, give you romance that lasts a lifetime, and prove his undivided devotion to you.”

But first:

How will your relationship and love life improve if you get to discover the #1 secret obsession of every man?

I mean, something every man is secretly obsessed with,

more than money, love or even more than sex.

Something that would make the man you love addicted to you and eagerly commits his entire life to (only) you.

Knowing what this secret is and applying it would make a huge impact in your relationship, right?

You bet!

The truth is, once you understand and master this secret, 

you’ll be able to make the man in your life (or any man of your choice) feel a burning desire for you.

so intense that you’ll become the most important person in his life.

See, I’m not making this up.

Chances are you’re worried right now that after getting intimate with him too soon or your man has lost interest in you.

you’re afraid that he will never commit.

It doesn’t matter even if he’s ghosted you or has been ignoring your texts and calls altogether.

What matters is that once you’re able to flip this secret trigger that more than 99% of women and men don’t even know it exist.

he’ll begin to feel a surge of desire and deep love connection that goes far beyond physical attraction…and he won’t know why.

This is because this secret flies under his radar.

You’re probably thinking; how’re all these even possible?

Well, in his book “His Secret Obsession,” 

James Bauer who’s a relationship expert explains that if you’re able to tap into a man’s most primal and inner desire, you literally become his obsession.

It’s something he calls “The Hero Instinct.”

Let me give you my honest His Secret Obsession review

You probably haven’t heard about the hero instinct yet. 

Well, it’s a new concept that is generating a lot of buzz in dating psychology at the moment.

What’s His Secret Obsession?

His secret obsession is a guide created by best-selling author James Bauer. 

It was specifically designed to help women get the desired attention, affection, devotion, love and total commitment,

from men who have pulled away or ghosted them or reluctant to commit long term to a relationship.

According to the book, the key to achieving this is to tap into their men’s Hero Instinct. 

And it’s the biggest secret to becoming a man’s deepest priority and passion in life.

James argued that it doesn’t matter how “infatuated” or “in love” a man may be. 

If the woman he’s with doesn’t elicit his Hero Instinct, 

he’ll always feel something vital is missing and will eventually seek out a lady who knows this secret.

Conversely, if you knew how to trigger your man’s Hero instinct, his heart would be yours…and yours alone – forever. 

And he’ll commit, be devoted and do anything just to make you happy.

You see, when it comes to relationship, men want to be the hero to the woman they care about and love.

So, a man will always be drawn to you if you make him feel like he’s your everyday hero and distance himself and be reluctant to commit when he doesn’t feel like one.

In His Secret Obsession, James Bauer reveals the exact phrases and words you can use, 

say or text and actions you can take in any situation you’re going through that will trigger this natural biological instinct.

I’ve spent time reading His Secret Obsession cover to cover. 

And as someone passionate about helping women get it right in their relationship, 

I’ll give you my unbiased opinion in this His Secret Obsession review.

As someone who reads a lot of dating materials, nothing turns me off faster than when I come across fluff. 

So, I’m extremely careful to filter out useful and genuine approaches to finding love from gimmicks that are all over the internet that doesn’t work.

Hence, I’ll explain to you exactly what you’ll get from His Secret Obsession; the cost, downsides and benefits in more details shortly.

But first, here are just a few of the secret signals James Bauer have perfected over 12 years of helping women avoid some of the worse relationship disasters

  1. “The Glimpse Phrase” once apply rightly, gives the man in your life a true taste of the real you…in a way that literally leaves him yearning for more.
  2. You can use “The Fascination Signal” to spark up such a deep attraction in a man that he’ll become emotionally addicted to you.
  3. Do you know that you can become a man’s only confidant? He can open up to you even before he opens up to his best guy friends.

All you have to do is use his “selective hearing” to your advantage. 

By simply using a 3 word in your conversation with him, you can fill him with a deep trust in you.

I won’t give the rest away. 

But, these are just a few practical and easy to apply secret signals you’ll have access to in His Secret Obsession.

The first section of the book gives a thorough explanation of what the Hero Instinct is about, 

while the second part is a workbook that helps you apply these secret signals and techniques in your relationship.

Let me make this clear:

This book isn’t about manipulating a man or silly mind games.

I’m not an advocate of tricking a man into loving you. 

Or compromise who you are to get him to love you. 

Heck no. You don’t even have to pretend to be who you are not.

His secret obsession teaches you how to show a man your needs and allowing him to meet and fulfil them. 

That way, you’ll fulfil his desire for meaning, respect, and to provide you something no other man…out there can.

This makes your man feel so good and better about who he is. 

He’ll begin to see you in a whole new light.

which will ultimately lead to a more passionate and deeper relationship between you two.

Perhaps, you’re already wondering how much His Secret Obsession cost.

His secret obsession is a little above 200-page main e-book, workbook and bonus materials. And it sells for $47.

You’re probably thinking the cost is too high for an e-book, right?

Have you thought about the cost of not getting the attention, devotion and commitment of the man you truly love and desire to spend the rest of your life with?

And besides, James Bauer puts a lot of work into this book.

including the bonus resources you’ll get for free. So I understand the price tag.

His Secret Obsession Review: 8 Facts To Know

The pros and cons of His secret obsession

I must be brutally honest with you. 

There were few things I didn’t like and things I did like about his secret obsession…as with any other digital program.

I’ll start with the good:

  • Easy to Access

His Secret Obsession is an eBook. 

So, immediately you click on download, you get it on your phone or computer and can start reading right away – no matter where you are.

  • His methods are backed by thorough research

Every claim and method in His Secret Obsession is backed by the latest research in psychology. 

For example, the secret signals shared in the book are all backed by evidence.

As I read through the book, there were few times I thought “these won’t work on me.”

 However, the reasons behind his claims were so compelling that I began to second guess myself.

  • Real and practical techniques

I love this aspect because James Bauer dealt with practical things women can do to elicit a man’s primal desire. 

he explained extensively the exact words, phrases and text you can use to achieve this aim.

Remember he has perfected these techniques over the years from helping women just like you to win the hearts of men they love.

  • If you desire total commitment from a man, this is the only book you need

As a relationship coach and someone who read and research a lot, 

I’ve concluded that this is the only book you need…if you want to succeed in your relationship.

As a lady, this will change your perspective and approach towards dating and how to win a man’s heart – forever – if you apply His Hero’s Instinct.

  • There’s guarantee

Honestly speaking, people hardly give a guarantee for an eBook.  

However, there’s a 60-day money-back guarantee for His Secret Obsession in case the book doesn’t meet your need.

So, there’s no risk on your part. 

If you buy it and don’t like you, James will refund your $47 within 60 days of making payment.

 Fair enough, right? You bet!

The bad part: The Cons

Here are the downsides:

  • It’s only available as an eBook/audio

If you’re among those who don’t like reading, His Secret Obsession is probably not for you.

 It’s only available as an audio and eBook. Some people only consider paperback as the true book.

However, you can listen to the audio. You’ll like it.

  • Teaching that his techniques apply to all men

Although everything James Bauer teaches is based on human psychology and research, there were times I felt he was generalizing all men.

  • The cost

You would have probably frowned at the price of this eBook by now. I mean $47 seems a lot.

 However, I want you to know that James is an expert in his field. 

And I believe you’re going to get more from the book…including the bonus material.

If you ask me, it’s worth it.

About James Bauer

his secret obsession author

James Bauer started as a trained psychologist,

who later advanced in his career and became a best-selling author and relationship coach.

The amazing part about him is that he’s spent the 12 years of his life helping men and women across the globe to improve their relationships.

From studying their cases, 

he’s discovered secrets about human psychology on how to elicit a man’s deep-seated craving and desire to make them commit – for life.

He calls this secret: his hero instinct.

He’s poured out his personal, real-life experience and research into human psychology and distilled it into his book His secret obsession.

Here’s one of his client, Rachel and the 12-word text

Rachel is just a woman like you whose story James introduces at the beginning of his book.

She’s one of James favorite client who was struggling to get her man to commit to the relationship.

Actually, things started off right between them.

Along the line, he suddenly became cold and emotionally unavailable. And that made Rachel sad and confused.

You can relate, right?

In her quest to know what to do about her situation, she reached out to James.

He gave her 12 words text to use on her boyfriend.

This meeting with James Bauer was the beginning of her relationship transformation that Rachel cherished to this day.

It turned everything around for her.

And it was what fueled James passion to help other women just like Rachel.

To help them win the love, devotion and commitment of the men they love. That was when he wrote this book: His Secret Obsession.

You too are about to experience the same transformation Rachel now enjoys in her relationship.

His Secret Obsession Review: My Verdict

As I said, have read this book cover to cover, so do I think His Secret Obsession is worth it?

Here’s my take:

First, I’m the type of guy that’s high on application. 

I think there’s no way our lives will change for the better if we can’t apply something in real life.

Yes, everything James Bauer teaches can be applied in real life.

And it’s also a book that will change your perspective about what men want and relationship in general.

Indeed, His Secret Obsession delivers on both sides.

Hence, I believe it worth the price. $47 might have startled you, but I believe it’s worth it.

While reading this book, there were things James Bauer pinpointed that I realized I subconsciously yearn for as a man.

And could only wish women just like you knew about.

Are you struggling to get a man to commit? or perhaps, you desire a better relationship

then His Secret Obsession may just become your secret weapon.