Love is tricky.
Ask those who have experienced heartbreaks in their relationships.
why men leave the women they love is a puzzle most people are yet to solve.
Does it mean that love isn’t enough to make a man stay with a woman in a relationship?
But many people believe that love is the only glue that holds a relationship together.
Do you believe it?
Or is there more to it that most people don’t know?
Pause for a moment.
Read the article I wrote on compatibility in a dating relationship. It will help you get some insights into these questions.
Okay, now let’s continue…
What you’re about to read will blow your mind.
If you’ve ever wondered or left questioning exactly what went wrong, take a deep breath.
I’m going to reveal to you the top 5 secrets why men leave the women they love.
The reasons will shock you (It isn’t what you think.)
If you haven’t experienced a situation like this, I’m sure you know someone who has.
Come to think of it; we’ve all been heartbroken at least once or more.
Who knows, you would have been able to salvage your relationship if you’d known these secrets earlier.
Anyways, it’s never too late to have them in your toolbox.
You may need them when next you want to advise a friend or face some difficult time with your man.
What do you think?
Top 5 Reasons Why Men Leave The Women They Love
1. He Didn’t Feel Respected
What first came to your mind when you read that?
I bet you’re wondering if a man can leave the woman he loves as a result of lack of respect.
So you know; a man can’t build a life with the woman who doesn’t respect him.
He wouldn’t want to spend the rest of his life with a lady who devalues his effort and unappreciative.
No man wants to live with a lady who makes him less of a man.
Respect is the number one love language of all men. Men spell love as “respect.”
Man has the greatest responsibility on earth.
He has a huge responsibility to set the example, cultivate, protect, and provide for his family.
Meeting these responsibilities isn’t easy for him.
Respect is one of the first things men consider when they fall in love with a woman.
When he feels his efforts are no longer appreciated, he will face the decision to change his relationship status.
And guess what?
He would rather prefer to be alone than stay in a relationship where he feels he isn’t respected.
The thing is this…
A man can go all the way to risk his life once he knows that his partner respects him and appreciates his effort.
A man needs to know that his partner is always there for him, and even when he’s weak, she still there to accept him with open arms.
Respect and appreciation uplifts a man’s spirit and makes him want to do the impossible.
Honor unlocks the hidden potential within a man and makes him commit for the long term.
He thrives and blossoms in such an environment.
But, nagging and disrespect push him farther away. And thwart his commitment towards the relationship.
He would rather want to be with someone who respects him for who he is than someone who respects him for what he does.
This takes me to my next point…
2. She Nags All The Time
King Solomon wrote something very interesting in his journal entry, what we call the book of proverbs, which relates to this.
He said, “It is better to dwell in the wilderness than to live in the same house with a quarrelsome and nagging woman.”
The first time I read it, it didn’t quite make so much sense until I read it over and over.
The word that caught my attention was “wilderness.”
Wilderness means “isolation,” or “desert.”
A desert is a wasteland that is void of vegetation, people, and water with high sun intensity.
No one can survive in a desert.
In other words, Solomon was saying,
“it’s better to dwell in a desert than to live in the same house with a nagging woman.”
Simply put, a man has a better chance of surviving in isolation than with a nagging woman.
Now think about that for a minute.
Desert (wilderness) is a better place for a man to dwell in than with a nagging woman.
Nobody likes nagging. Neither do men.
Nagging and whining can bring tension in a relationship.
Men can rarely stand negative attitudes such as; nagging, and constant complaining
Men want to be held in high esteem and encouraged.
They want to avoid nagging by every means because constant complaints bring out the violence in a man.
3. He Didn’t Have Peace Of Mind
You may have wondered why your man left you, to be with someone who wasn’t as beautiful, educated, or attractive (sexy) as you.
It may be because he didn’t have peace of mind.
Every one of us craves for peace of mind –and will do anything to have it.
No man in his right senses would want to abandon the woman who creates an atmosphere of joy and peace in a home.
In a situation where the woman quarrels by making life a living hell for him, a man would prefer to be alone.
It’s better to stay on the rooftop alone than to live in the same house with a contentious woman.
Life is already hard enough.
Man faces challenges and circumstances every day that question his identity.
As he steps out daily, most times he comes face to face with his fears,
And experience failures that make him vulnerable and discouraged.
The last thing he wants to do is come home to face world war III.
He prefers to be in the arms of a lady who will calm his fears,
Who will encourage and stand by him not the one who will compare him with other men.
4. Comparing Him With Other Men
How will you feel when your partner compares you to an ex?
How about when she does it more often?
Angry I guess…
Most men get angry when you talk about your past relationships.
A man wants to feel he’s a priority to you and holds a special place in your heart,
He doesn’t want to hear how excellent your ex was or how your ex is a better man than he is
Such conversation is going to hurt him and possibly make him resent you.
5. Trying To Fix Him
When a relationship begins,
It doesn’t take long for the lady to assume a motherly role and treat her man like a child that needs constant guidance and correction.
They make the man their project.
Most women do not realize that a man doesn’t want a lady that would fix him,
Instead, they desire to find someone that would love and appreciate them.
What if he has a bad attitude that needs attention?
When a man has an attitude that is not pleasant,
What he needs is to be told his wrong in an atmosphere of love, not of harsh criticism or judgement.
Now you know… Don’t make these mistakes in your relationship