So, there’s this cute guy you’re seeing.
He’s very attractive, and you really like him.
In fact, you’re head over heels in love with him.
He’s your dream man. And you adore him.
But there’s just a little challenge, though:
You aren’t sure if he’s into you. Or you know he isn’t in love with you yet.
But you want to know how to make him fall in love with you as you’ve fallen for him.
Now, the question is: how do you make a man fall hopelessly in love with you?
How can a man fall deeply in love with you?
At some point, all of us desire to experience true love.
But most significantly, we want someone to love us.
Hope you are aware that trying to make a man fall in love with you may be the most difficult and enjoyable aspects of falling in love.
Therefore, if you’re interested in learning how to make a guy like you…
I mean, how to make a man fall hopelessly in love with you and want to spend the rest of his life with you,
Then you must first convince him that you are someone who deserves his love and attention.
But getting everything to work out isn’t as simple as using a magic spell, is it?
Relationships require a lot of effort and a consistent balance of tolerance, time, and commitment to grow.
It is a difficult task.
Nevertheless, there are tricks to get a guy to notice you’re madly in love with him so he can eagerly reciprocate that admiration.
this article aims to help you attract a man who will put the same effort into understanding you.
But how does it work? Well, check out the points below.
How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You: 7 Steps To Get Him Hooked.
1. Don’t Try To Change Him.
So, you met this guy.
You like him. And he’s your dream man.
You know he has a lot of potential but not living up to it.
So what do you do?
You try to make him see opportunities.
Make him start a new business or side hustle.
Get a job. Learn a new skill. Basically, trying to make him live out his true potential.
Or if he sucks at self-grooming, you try to make him improve his appearance.
And here’s why…
There is one error you must avoid when it comes to having a man fall in love with you and anticipate the future with you…
And that’s trying to change him.
Never make the mistake of treating him like a project that needs to be worked on.
Once a man perceives you’re trying to change him, he’ll resist you and build up walls.
He’ll think you believe he isn’t capable. And that can be so scary. He won’t trust you.
And it’d sabotage whatever you’re trying to accomplish.
A man likes to feel that he’s in control – particularly in his life.
Nobody likes to be fixed.
I know it can be tempting.
I mean, you feel the urge to change the way he talks, the way he dresses,
His social group, what he loves to do or how he approaches things (especially if he’s the passive type).
If you want a man to fall deeply and hopelessly in love with you,
Accept him for who he is without coming across as someone that’s trying to change him.
And if you can’t accept him completely for who he is, move on.
Find someone else. Someone you respect and value just as they are right now.
A man will ask for assistance if he needs it.
But only if you make him feel safe around you
Every man is instinctively programmed to feel like a hero.
The goal of your guy is to make you feel proud of him.
He’s not the guy for you if you can’t provide that.
2. Make Him Think The Relationship Is His Idea.
You’ve been dating him for a while now.
And you think it’s time for him to move things forward with you?
I know it’s kinda tempting to tell him this directly…
All of these things will poison for your chances of keeping this guy interested.
Men need to feel a sense of freedom and trust to feel comfortable getting deeper into a relationship.
When he feels you’re trying hard to force a relationship, he’ll think you’re desperate.
Never pressure a man, so you don’t come across as desperate.
You see, if you want a man to chase you, commit to you and fall deeply in love with you,
He has to believe with every fiber of his being that chasing you, choosing you, committing to you, and the relationship is his idea.
Not the other way around.
The guy has to believe with every fiber of his being that he is the one who made the first move…
…that he is the one who convinces you to be his girlfriend…
…that he is the one who wanted you to be his wife…”
So, make him see your value.
Show him. Don’t tell.
He’ll only want to commit to you AFTER he has seen the value of having you in his life.
This is what makes a man for in love with you.
3. Making Him Feel A Deep Connection With You
I can’t say this enough.
For a guy to fall in love with you, he must feel intimately bonded to you.
That vulnerability and ability to dive in and form that oxytocin and close bond where he doesn’t want to let you go.
Now, many women know this to be true, but when it comes to how to create that, they’re blank.
So, contrary to popular belief, what most women don’t know is that men need to feel safe just like women need to feel safe in a relationship.
To create that bond of connection, you need to create a space.
And you do that by holding space.
Now, here’s what is interesting about holding space…
Most women have no idea what “holding space” looks like or even means.
Holding space sounds kind of weird. But it’s actually very simple concept and powerful.
When you’re with a man and just let him share his feelings, thoughts, fears, and all.
But the thing is, men don’t share feelings the way women do.
It usually takes a man way longer to get to his point. He spends time formulating it as he’s sharing it.
So, if your boyfriend is sharing his fears you’d want to jump in and connect by saying something like
“you know what? I felt that way too some time ago in my life.”
Most women just jump in and interrupt him by trying to give him advice or strategy while he’s trying to share.
However, for a man to feel that deep connection with you, you must learn to hold space.
That means you’ve to be comfortable with silence. And just be with him in his vulnerability to create that safe space.
And because he’s been vulnerable, he’s open.
That’s when a deep connection happens.
At this point, he feels so deeply bonded because he can actually feel you accept him at the moment of weakness.
So, how to make a guy fall in love with you?
Make him feel a deep emotional connection by holding space.
4. Making Him Feel Masculine With You
Ladies, this is so huge.
There’s nothing as important for a man than being in his core energy and feeling vitalized, alive,
And energized by that core masculine energy that bubbles and flows within him.
The amazing part is…
When he’s in that masculine flow around you,
He gets to experience that high energy and flow state regularly, that’s an incredible feeling he will associate with you.
A rare feeling almost few women know how to invoke in a man.
A feeling that he gets to be in his highest state around you alone.
So, if you can help a man elicit and experience those feelings whenever you’re around him,
He will fall in love with you because of the amazing feeling he gets whenever he’s in your presence.
Well, you might be thinking to yourself right now…
Isn’t that his responsibility?
Why should you be the one to make him feel masculine?
Now, here’s how to help him feel masculine as a woman.
Well, it’s his responsibility to evoke his masculine energy, but you can play a major part in helping him.
The women that help their men activate their masculine energy are the ones the men would fall deeply in love with.
Laugh and smile at his jokes.
Countless studies and surveys have revealed that women want a guy with a sense of humor.
Well, that’s funny because men are looking for a woman they can make smile. Like she’s supposed to be.
Laugh at his jokes, and he’ll think you find him funny.
And it triggers the impulse that you’re the one who brings out this feeling in him.
And for that simple reason, he will want to see you more often and start liking you more.
5. Show Him That You Respect And Admire Him
Men are looking for a lady who “gets” them.
A man desires the brilliance and femininity of a woman to attract him in the same way that his masculine energy draws her.
Every man seeks a partner who values his capacity for caregiving, problem-solving, and protection.
He wants her to look up to him for his stability and composure under adversity.
A man actually wants a lady who looks up to him as her hero.
I’m talking about the man he’s always aspired to be.
You would be amazed at how heroic he would act only for you if you could genuinely make him feel this way.
That’s how to make a guy fall in love with you.
6. Be His Believer
Ever wondered what men get from a woman or a girlfriend that they just don’t feel anywhere else?
I can tell you, as a man, when you have that supporter in your corner, that believer,
That amazing woman who just believes and thinks you can do it, you would want to step up.
And I can tell you this; it’s one of the most amazing feelings anyone,
Any man, can get. That thrilling feeling that someone got their back…
When you’re doing this, you’re communicating to him unconsciously:
“I believe in you.” “I believe you’re capable of figuring things out.”
“I believe you can achieve anything.”
You see, this feeling wants to make him step up his game and become your hero.
And when it comes to true demonstrations of masculinity and the code it lives by,
The concept of believing in him and honor is practically inseparable from the ideal.
He knows you always have his back – no matter what happens.
You can give him this feeling regularly. But how the heck do you do that?
Let me ask you this for a second…
Is your boyfriend handsome?
Is he very attractive?
Does he seem like he knows where he’s going and what he’s doing?
Does he also look like he’s got the perfect plan?
Well, it may seem that most men have it all together on the outside.
After all, that’s how men are supposed to look, by the way. That’s how men are built.
But, the truth is…
Most of us are insecure about things.
We don’t have most things figured out.
We might not be certain about how certain things in our lives will turn out.
And those are the defining moments.
Can you still believe in him even when he seems confused?
Because there are moments in your man’s life that are like pivotal moments,
There’re critical moments when he’s got a big presentation to give, for example.
Maybe he’s going after a new business opportunity or something that matters to him.
And when you can look him in the eyes and say something along the lines of…
“Babe, you got this. I believe in you.
I know you’re going to make me proud.”
You give him a big kiss and hug before he leaves the door.
He feels like a champion ready to take the world heads on.
We get this tingling feeling and sensation when our woman looks at us dead in the eye.
We just know she believes in us…sometimes even more than we believe in ourselves.
You have to demonstrate through your actions (by believing in him) that you’re on his team and have his back. Otherwise, he will never commit.
Want to know how to make him fall in love with you forever?
Be his believer and always have his back.
7. Encourage Him In His Purpose.
This is one of the most vitalizing and energizing feelings for a man.
You know how sexy and attractive a guy is when you find him on his purpose.
You know he is passionate when he’s on that path doing something that he loves…
…Something that lights him up every day.
Every woman wants to fall in love with a guy like that.
And for a man, that’s the most incredible feeling.
When he lives that, you’re there believing in and cheering him on.
A guy like that will let go of any resistance, and he’ll fall for you and keep falling for you.
We want to be around people who believe in us and help us live our dream life.
But if a man can’t live his purpose or if he feels like there’s resistance.
I mean, he feels like, “Oh, being with you will counteract his purpose,”
that’s when you’ll get his resistance.
If he feels he must go off his purpose entirely, he may get depressed, cold, and anxious.
You aren’t going to have a partner that’s capable of love.
Because depression will literally reduce his ability to bring his best self into the relationship.
He will unleash his anger and frustration on you.
However, living in his purpose will help him feel better and better about himself and you.
Now, how do you make a guy fall in love with you by communicating that you’ll be a great partner for you by helping him live his purpose?
The key to this is very simple.
But unfortunately, not everything that’s simple is easy.
Here’s what I mean by that…
Are you living your purpose?
We’ve all seen people living their purpose in greater ways.
And what that does to us is…it inspires us.
It gives us some kind of inner permission that we can do it, too if they can do it.
So, my question for you is…
What’s been on your heart?
What is it on your mind that you want to do that’s calling you to a greater level?
Something that’s calling you to the next chapter of your life.
Is it a book you want to write?
What business in your heart that you want to start?
Where do you want to travel to?
Whatever it is you want to do with your life. It doesn’t have to be complicated.
And, are you courageous enough to actually take a step towards it?
Because, as you live your purpose, he’s going to see you and be like, “Woo, if she’s going it, I can do it also.
That inspires me, and I’m going to live my purpose in a bigger way.”
It challenges him.
And again, it doesn’t have to be this huge thing.
Like having a massive plan. Or thinking you have to do amazing stuff out there.
It could be as simple as getting in shape.
Meditating. Taking your self-care seriously. And other simple stuff…
There’s nothing more amazing to a man than seeing you living out what matters to you daily.
That’s how you stay on his mind all day every day.
8. Don’t Smother Him
I notice that many ladies make major mistakes in this particular area.
They define a relationship far too early. or attempt to restrain a man too quickly.
It’s a bad idea.
And the reason for that is that a man’s intrinsic need for freedom runs contrary to a woman’s need to feel “secure.”
Look at it this way:
Ever wondered why soldiers around the world die on the battlefield?
They do so in an effort to uphold their concept of freedom.
Now, you know why men don’t easily give their freedom away for whatever reason.
Not even because of a woman.
Of course, unless she does something differently.
A man’s biggest fear in dating or marriage is to lose his freedom.
And that’s because masculine energy craves space and freedom.
For a man to function at his best, he needs to feel free to make his own choices and decisions, not the other way around.
Stop asking him, “where is this relationship going?” Stop giving men an ultimatum. Calling 15 times a day
The problem with an ultimatum is that it focuses on telling a guy what you want from him instead of focusing on WHY you’re amazing for him.
Am I saying you should blindly follow a guy without knowing his plans for you?
But you’re much more likely to get a guy hooked if you shift focus to being the woman he never wants to leave,
Instead of making him think you’re the woman who he can never get rid of!
So, how do you become the woman he’s hooked on?
By making him feel the right emotions. And the illusion that he’s in control.
Excitement and fun
Know when to give him space.
The good news is, if you make him feel the right emotions and feel he’s in control,
He will surrender his independence for something greater (which is you.)
So improve yourself and refrain from pressuring him to make a decision too quickly.
Instead of focusing on locking him down quickly,
Focus on being an indispensable presence in his life then you’ll find HE’S the one who won’t be able to imagine life without you.
Frequently Asked Questions
How Can You Make A Guy Fall In Love With You If He Isn’t Ready For A Relationship?
If a guy tells you he isn’t ready for a relationship yet, believe him. He’s probably telling the truth.
However, if you love him, I advise that you remain friends with him.
Most times, it isn’t because people aren’t ready for a relationship.
They just haven’t met someone amazing that makes them feel special differently.
To make him fall in love with you, apply the tips in this article but don’t force it.
Be willing to walk away if he doesn’t reciprocate.
How Do You Make A Guy Fall In Love With You Again Over Text?
Flirt with him.
Teasing isn’t playing with a man’s ego.
Many women flirt and tease in a hurtful, nasty, not really arousing, and sexy way.
They don’t know how to flirt and tease because they hold back and fear being judged.
Most women think it’s about making bad jokes,
Making a guy feel small instead of making him feel aroused and turned on.
To make a guy fall in love with you through chat, demonstrate in your text that you’re confident in your sexuality.
Tease him in a fun and sexy, not demeaning way.
And when he reciprocates, don’t ignore him. Play along.
What Makes A Man Fall In Love With A Woman?
I’ve listed a lot in this article. But here are other tips you need to know
1. Be genuinely interested in him
2. Be vulnerable
3. Tell him you need him
4. Show confidence
5. Keep an eye on your appearance
How Can You Tell That A Guy Likes You?
Here are a few pointers:
1. He finds ways to spend time with you.
2. He smiles a lot. Like a lot around you – even when your jokes aren’t that funny
3. He teases you (in a friendly way).
4. He compliments you.
5. He finds ways to touch you.
How Do You Get Your Boyfriend To Love You Again?
For your boyfriend to love you again, follow the advice in this article.
Just a quick tip
1. Let him invest his time and energy in you
Men love what they invest in.
2. Take a genuine interest in him.
Resist the temptation to always talk about yourself.
“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”
3. Surprise him
A lot of people miss this.
The little things are what make a big difference in a relationship.
Get your boyfriend something he loves.
Don’t always be the taker. Give.
How Do I Make A Guy Fall In Love With Me Who Is Not Interested In Me?
As I mentioned, you can do nothing if someone isn’t interested in you.
However, you can remain friends – if it’s possible and apply the strategies in this article.
How Do I Get A Guy To Fall In Love With Me Instantly? I’m Someone Inexperienced With Love, And I Want To Know-How?
Sorry honey, I wish this was possible. But unfortunately, it isn’t.
You can’t make a guy fall in love with you instantly. Love takes time to develop.
But, if you’re inexperienced with love, you can learn a lot by reading this article.
How Do You Make A Guy Fall In Love With You From A Long-Distance?
Research says that the best chance of finding love is to meet someone in person.
Because when you meet a guy online or on any dating app,
You’re going to fall in love with the fantasies you’ve created in your head about who he is.
You have a chance, though, but you have to rely heavily on calls and texts.
So, your best bet is to try as much as possible to set up a date with this person or travel to visit them.
Video calling, chatting and all are great.
But, there’s something about encountering someone one-on-one.
It gets to allow you see how they treat others and even you.