How To Get Your Ex Back: A Step By Step Guide

Warning: Never attempt to get your ex back without reading this revealing guide -from start to finish.

Shocking discovery reveals how to get your ex back–while making it look like it was their idea.

In this article, I’m going to show you the exact program that took me by the hand and taught me the step-by-step process that I used to get my ex to insanely fall in love with me, again.

Want to know the secret about how to make your ex want you back so badly to the point where they become insane until they win you back?

Sounds hard to believe, right?  Then, keep reading…

If you’re reading this right now, chances are you’re dealing with a painful end of a romantic relationship.

Perhaps, the break-up was never your idea to start with. And you’re regretting the fact that it happened.

You’re feeling heartbroken, sad, and confused. Or it’s been long you broke up but realized how much you still want to be with your ex.

Believe me; you aren’t alone.

A couple of months after my ex broke up with me; I soon realized I was still head over heels in love with her.

I missed the childish little giggles between our kisses; our special little “fishy” kisses that you always thought were so weird but never stopped beckoning for more.

The way her warm and gentle kiss would elicit spine chilling responses I never knew I was capable of feeling.

 I missed the way we made each other laugh, the way we made each other smile. And lot more…

Although, we weren’t together anymore, I had to look for ways to convince and make her fall in love with me again…

But this time, for good.

I couldn’t imagine her being with someone else and lying in bed with them.

Let’s face it;

I know you’ve probably tried so many tricks that didn’t work.

I did, too.

The truth is, getting back with an ex is only difficult when you make mistakes.

Unfortunately, it’s pretty easy to make mistakes when you’re struggling with the pain of a break-up combined with the usual feeling of anger and resentment.

For me, at first, everything my mind told me to do after our breakup made things worse…and didn’t bring her back.

Right now, you’re probably making the deadly mistakes I made (a lot of people make this same mistakes) who try to win their ex back.

You’re probably asking right now;

But what are these mistakes I need to avoid so I can win my ex back?

I am glad you asked.

You see, not until I came across “The Scientifically – Validated Technique for Getting Your Ex Back In Your Arms” By Brad Browning, did I begin to make reasonable progress in winning her back. (I’ll share his program with you shortly.)

As I write this, it’s been 6 months we got back together. And I can’t begin to narrate how obsessed she is over me. By the way, we’re putting things in place to tie the knot soonest.

And I’m convinced you too want similar result.

Before we dive in, let me ask you…

Will you ever forgive yourself if you let the person you truly love slip out of your hands-forever?

How would you feel when your ex ends up with someone else just because you refused to invest in a simple, proven program that works to get the result you truly desired?

Can you even imagine seeing your ex spend the rest of their life with someone else other than you?

I’m guessing your answer is NO, right?

So, read and invest in what I’m about to show you – so you wouldn’t have any regrets for not taking action to get your ex back.

Here are three things you must understand – all are incredibly important. So read carefully to the end.

How To Get Your Ex Back: A 3-Step Guide

STEP 1: Give It Time To Analyze Your Relationship

Here’s the first question I asked myself that changed my approach towards winning her back…

You need to ask yourself, too.

Why do you want to get back with your ex?

If you answered something like

I can’t live without my ex.

I am miserable without my ex.

He/She was the only one for me.

I can’t imagine life without my ex.

Then you are still suffering from post-breakup denial and bargaining. Denial and bargaining are two of the many grief stages after a break-up.

It’s extremely common for people to be obsessed about getting their ex back after a break-up. However, it’s not always the right choice.

Here’s an example, even if your relationship with your ex was abusive, you might want to rekindle it just because you are missing them.

Our mind often confuses the act of missing someone with “love”. It’s normal to miss someone after you’ve been with them for a long time. But it doesn’t necessarily mean you still love them.

See it this way; every relationship has ups and downs – problems, fights, and disagreements. But if you two broke up, then there was something very wrong with your relationship.

It would help if you analyzed what went wrong and realize whether it’s a good idea to get back together.

If you listen to your heart, all you will hear is that you love your ex and want them back. Instead, also try to think with your head. Be logical.

Analyze the pros and cons of your relationship with your ex, so you don’t make these mistakes listed below that most people make.

Mistake 1: Don’t Act Needy, Desperate, And Insecure.

Here’s the first mistake I made…that you’re probably making right now…

I call this part “The Instincts” because all these mistakes directly result from you following your instincts.

Here’s the pattern of frustration I felt few weeks after our breakup…

We broke up barely a few weeks ago. Since the break-up, I messaged her every day, none stop, and she hardly replies. I had to text her so many times before he replied just once.

I love her and wanted to be with her, but I don’t understand why she was acting this way.

What could have gone wrong?

But she said she loved me, and then she’s suddenly acting this way.

Sounds familiar, right?

That’s exactly the story of around 89% of desperate people who want to get their ex back.

I hate to break it to you…

It’s a huge mistake to act desperate and needy before your ex

It would look like you are stalking them and that can turn them off

Please, understand that I’m speaking from experience here…

This state of neediness is unattractive and pushes your ex further away.

Mistake 2: You Keep Contacting Your Ex

I’ve been thinking about what I’ve shared with you here so far, and I believe I need to tell you this secret…

Brace yourself.

I know you can’t wait to contact your ex- again. At least to tell them how much you miss them, you can’t live without them…that they made the greatest mistake of their life by leaving you…

But it’s a bad idea. And here’s why…

I’m guessing you must have come across the term “no contact rule?”

Well, it’s simple and very effective.

How does not contacting your ex help you win them back?

Here’s the thing:

Your ex first has to realize how much they miss you.

And for that to happen, there can’t be contact between you two –at least for some time.

So, here’s a little known secret on how to make the no contact rule work for you

 The rule is majorly for you.

Why? Read the next sentence.

It helps you to detoxify yourself from everything inside that would bring you problems in getting your ex back.

Typically after a break-up, we want to think about it every second, worry about and analyze it. And that’s just natural about people.

However, brooding over a break-up doesn’t help you in any way. Instead it hurts you and jeopardize your chances of getting your ex back.

During no contact, strive to become the kind of person you can be proud of, someone your ex won’t be able to resist.

Someone s/he will literally crawl on the floor, beg, and be obsessed about once he sees you or hears your voice.

How do you do that exactly?

No worries though…Brad Browning has developed a step-by-step system of techniques that will quickly change their feelings about you.

And make them hopelessly fall in love with you, feel a special kind of love and desire so powerful that they chase and commit to only you forever.

And that takes me to the next point I want to make…

Mistake 3: You Refuse To Upgrade

Do you remember why your ex left you?

Perhaps they thought they wanted to be alone or found someone more attractive than you or because you were clingy, needy, and desperate.

After not contacting them for a while, they must have wondered what the heck happened to you.

And when they do, with time, they will slowly start to forget that image of yours (the needy, desperate one) and start remembering the things they liked about you.

And what they missed about you… I’m talking about human psychology here…

(When I followed this rule, my ex couldn’t stop thinking about what I was up to. (By the way, she told me after we came back together.))

But it’s your job to reset how they perceive you. More on this in the next point…

They will start remembering your good qualities, the things they found attractive in you and wished they never broke up with you.

And that’s when you can contact and meet them. Just as they lay eyes on you, BOOM!!

They’re going to see the new and improved you.

YOU version 2.0

You see, the best revenge you can give an ex is an improved version of you. Read the next point…

STEP 2: Contact Your Ex

how to get your ex back by contacting them

Okay, you’re probably asking already,

When is the right time to contact an ex?

I will tell you. The right time to contact your ex is when you are ready.

Believe me; many people screw up because they contact their ex before they are ready.

It usually begins fine because their ex misses them due to no contact, but soon the ex goes back to being cold.

When they figure out you haven’t improved on yourself or you’ve been faking it. And they can always tell if you are faking things.

They have to see this quality in you before they can even begin thinking of or see any reason to reconnect with you deeply.

STEP 3: Build Trust And Connection

This is crucial…and it’s the make or mar point of getting back your ex.

You see, almost every success story (about getting back with an ex) has one thing in common…

They all understood exactly what went wrong in the relationship in the first place and exactly how to fix it.

There are so many reasons for a relationship to fail. And it’s impossible to list them. Moreover, every situation is unique, and the solution to each situation is also unique.

In most cases, the reason for the break-up can be boiled down to the loss of one of the following:

  • Attraction
  • Connection
  • Trust

So, how do you build connection and gain your ex’s trust again so they can’t wait to get back right into your arms?

Great question!

First off, don’t bring up the issue of getting back together. Chat, speak and hangout with them as if you would with a friend.

What you need to do is subtly elicit old memories and tap into your ex’s primal desire and fantasies.

Your ability to elicit these hard-wired feelings and desires in him/her is your key to success.

And the thing is, once you know which emotions to tap into, it becomes effortless to get into his head and makes it feel like getting back with you is their idea…not yours.

That’s why this comprehensive step-by-step guide by Brad Browning would help you through the process of taping into these primal desires and emotions

One way to do this is to remind them of your good times together – your love escapade. By doing so, you’re sowing the idea of being with you into their head.

For example, “John, you remember the last time we went on vacation in Hawaii? I can never forget the time we spent together.

You remember that funny lady we met at the beach with her kids she was crazy It’s one of my most amazing trips…I miss our time together”

Do you get the idea?

Of course, you didn’t say you want him/her back…but that’s the idea you just planted in their head.

And she’ll begin to fantasize about getting back with you –especially now that you’re so attractive and irresistible.

Anyways, this article is already getting too long.

I know you deeply love your ex and desperately want them back now…not later.

Wouldn’t it be great if you have someone who can take you by the hand and walk you through this process I just explained to you in a more detailed way so you can begin implementation right away?

If you follow and apply this proven and set-in-stone system, your ex will be begging you to come back and have a fresh start…

Your ex would also be the one texting you at 2 am to tell you how badly they want you…and calling to explain how sorry they are for leaving you.

The Ex-factor program is the ultimate key to getting your ex back and keeping them committed to only you.

It worked for me. And I’m certain it’ll work for you, too.

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