No Good Man Will Marry You If You Don’t Follow These Tips I’m About To Show You.
Marriage is one of the most discussed and debated subjects among ladies.
I have a lot of female friends and the number one question they always ask is how to find a good man to marry.
Whenever I’m with them, I notice they don’t seem to get tired of fantasizing about their dream man and home.
Most of them can’t wait to get married.
They often ask, what are the signs he wants to marry me, or how do I make him marry me?
Okay, I know you fantasize too. But have you asked yourself
What does it take to find and attract a good man for marriage? What makes a person want to marry a lady?
A lot of ladies get consumed with the idea of getting married that they fail to ask themselves the right questions.
You may be wondering, “Why focus on questions when what we crave are answers?”
It’s simple. Answers come from questions.
And the quality of the solution you seek determines the quality of the question you ask. Ask the wrong question, get the wrong answer.
Ask the right question, get the correct answer. Ask the foremost powerful question possible, and the answer will often be life-changing.
Questions like how to find a good man to marry is worth asking and deserves the best answer possible.
Yeah, questions are that powerful!
Recently, I asked my friends’ same questions I’m about to ask you.
To be more specific, I asked them, “do you think that you’re marriage material?” and if yes, why do you think so?
What shocked me was the kind of responses they gave.
As they shared their views, I discovered that many of them don’t even believe there are still good guys. (though they desire one.)
They still live with the ideology “all men are the same.”
While many of them believed that age qualifies them for marriage, others agreed that educational background, job status, and earning capacity set them apart.
As we went deeper, they began to talk about quality sex, exposure, and beauty – looks and dress sense.
Of course, they didn’t fail to bring in their religious views. More than 95% of them believed that being a religious devout makes them a marriage material.
Few of them knew the value of communication, love, patience, and understanding.
As I write this, I still find it hard to believe that I had such conversations with university graduates.
On second thought, I wasn’t surprised because marriage values have been water down in our society.
Many ladies fantasize about their dream man but have no idea how to find a good man to marry
That’s what prompted me to share these tips with you in this article.
Any lady can find a good man to marry by following these timeless tips because it shows you how to get a man’s heart.
No matter how old you are (whether 23 or 33), what I’m about to share with you will change your life forever.
Things are about to take a new turn for you.
I’m about to reveal some secrets on how to find a good man to marry that will change your beliefs and transform your fantasy into reality.
The time has come for you to live out your fantasy.
Once your perspective changes, your experiences can’t help but change as well.
If you’re ready, let’s dive into it.
Choosing the right partner for marriage can somewhat be difficult. For you to find and attract the right man, you need to become the right woman.
There’s no hard and fast truth to this.
In physics, “positive attracts negative. And negative attracts positive.” “Positive repels positive.”
My friend, that principle doesn’t work in real life.
Principle and laws are what govern life. Once you understand them, you can manipulate them to your advantage.
“You don’t attract who you would like; you attract who you’re.”
You should write that down somewhere in your note so you wouldn’t forget – for the rest of your life.
For the fact that you want a good man is not a guarantee that you will attract him into your life. You also have to do more than find and charm, you have to keep him.
What does it take then to find a good man? What makes a man want to get married to a woman?
Thank you for asking I will tell you.
First, it works by the principle of recognition.
What does being a “good man” mean to you?
Life is about interpretation – the meaning you give to it.
What’s your idea of a “good man?”
This has a lot to do with your vision. Vision is the foundation for recognition.
Most ladies find it hard to recognize a good man when they come across one because he doesn’t fit into their ideal man.
Let’s assume you already know what qualities a good man should have.
But then Like in goal setting where you need to step back and ask yourself a simple question, who do you need to become to achieve a particular goal?
You also have to ask yourself a similar question.
Like “what kind of individual do I need to become to attract an honest man into my life?”
The truth is, to achieve a different goal; you have to become a different kind of person. So who do you need to become to attract the right man?
Below are some qualities every man desire and admire in a lady.
How To Find A Good Man To Marry : What You Must Know
1. Being purposeful (Attractiveness)
Remember, I made mention of the law of recognition.
Having a clear understanding of why you’re on earth is the first quality you need to find and attract the right man.
First, you have to understand that you marry for the future, not for the present. So, the purpose is like a road map that shows you what your life is about.
A good man can find and recognize you once you define your life’s purpose (and vision).
It’s the person you see in your vision that attracts anything to you – including the man.
It will be difficult ( in fact impossible) to get the man of your dreams without you having a vision.
No good man wants to end up with a lady without vision.
Get a vision for yourself. Get a dream. Your life’s purpose is the foundation for recognition.
2. The Willingness To Cooperate (Submission)
Men and women in time past have abused the subject of submission due to their lack of understanding. But, it still doesn’t nullify the fact that it’s what every man desire in a woman.
The truth is, no man wants to get married to another man – as the head of the home who will threaten his headship.
A good man searches for a cooperative woman that can help him achieve the vision he has for the future and family.
Being submissive isn’t stupidity has many call it. It’s strength. It’s a quality that’s rare in our present-day world where everyone wants to dominate and rule.
No matter your level of exposure, education, or knowledge, you must submit to your man. If you aren’t ready to submit, it’s better to remain single.
Contrary to popular opinion, the way to a man’s heart isn’t food. It’s by loving him –via respect.
You see, men and women don’t feel loved the same way. Men interpret love as respect.
You may want to write that somewhere. Most ladies have no idea how important respect is to a man.
After 30 years in marriage, a lady asked her husband what might seem to be a piece of cake question:
“What would you want more, love, or respect?” While both are important, his answer shocked me: “Respect.”
A man admitted that respect from his wife helps him easily overcome his daily challenges.
Respect helps a man step up to his leadership role in the relationship; this allows him to steer the relationship in the right direction.
Men would be better leaders if ladies would show them via respect, says a lady.
A good man wants you to respect him for who he is, not for what he does.
Honour is almost entirely like respect. Every man desires it.
Honour sees the gold in your man rather than the dirt. It’s calling out the God and the giant in him.
One thing I know is that men gravitate to the place where they receive honour. If he can only get it from work, he’ll pour himself and strength into his job.
And if his lady doesn’t honour him but does receive it from another woman, the man will turn his attention to the other woman
Honour is every man’s deepest desire.
You will have to treat your man better than he deserves; by doing so, you will call out his destiny.
Men go crazy for honour. And will become their fullest and healthiest selves in such an atmosphere.
To find, attract, and keep a good man, you have to be an honorable person.